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A breast cancer diagnosis impacts both the woman and her partner. Despite all the medical information you’re learning, there is much that is not said, leaving you to figure out how to act and respond to unfamiliar changes and challenges.
You’ve been told by the doctor to expect physical changes from surgery (pain, scars, change in appearance of her breast), from radiation (redness, swelling, tenderness, burning), from chemotherapy (nausea, vomiting, fatigue, loss of hair) and from hormone therapy (hot flashes, night sweats).
You thought this list of side effects had enough problems to encounter, but what you weren’t told, is that the real challenges often start after the initial treatment is completed. Some of the physical changes have emotional consequences which are not covered by doctors.
It is difficult to know how to respond. As her partner, you too can be traumatized and profoundly affected. Especially at this point, Your Breast Cancer Coach, who knows the emotional territory, is a helpful addition.
Many women are unhappy with the way they look after treatment. It may be difficult for both of you to adjust to the physical changes that have occurred. How do you both cope and move forward with this issue?
There are a variety of physical results during and after treatment. Some women have persistent breast tenderness, muscle aches, joint pains, numbness or tingling which bothers them. How do you respond to these repeated and sometimes chronic, physical problems?
Some women are concerned about cognitive changes. They can become forgetful, or they may be unusually irritable. They may have difficulty concentrating or be easily distracted. You may recognize that these changes have occurred, but how do you react and respond to them?
Many women develop new menopausal symptoms. They may have hot flashes, night sweats, and become moody. Physical symptoms of vaginal dryness may significantly impact sexual activities. Some women lose sexual desire. What is the best way to support your partner and respond in this area?
Your Breast Cancer Coach knows about these changes and challenges and many more that you might experience. Having a confidential discussion with a professional in this field can lighten the load that you carry as a partner. Your experience is unique and requires special attention.